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But loves to act as if what Im saying isnt logical. He hasnt asked me out or made an effort to spend anytime with me for 4 weekends in a row. Also, since he fundamentally had no place to live when quarantine first began his ex wife paid for a month for his AirBnB and he said he couldnt tell her about me yet. And if you need help deciding what to do about a boyfriend who isnt making an effort in your relationship, you can share your story in the comments section below. And cant make money, i have no car! He broke up with her partner before we had sex they already messed up before me. He said that Ive been making effort so can he. Could it be that he lost interest in me? He said its okay I dont judge you and Im sure no one does and if they do they can go fuck themselves! Do you feel loved? I got up today and did mine in bed, he continued browsing the web on his phone which is all he does now when we are together. But theres other strange things he does, when we go on dates that require conversation like coffee or dinner, or drives, he doesnt start any conversations. I know this might sound silly compared to all of yours. I am very fortunate to be free from that. Youre boyfriend seems like a catfish. He says it just happened because we live in the same house, so it doesnt matter. Its like Im wrapped around his finger but he doesnt want to care and so its hard for me to let go because I truly love him but hes not the same with me. I am clearly the one putting any effort into the relationship where I think I have just made it too easy for him. He doesnt pay me a visit at our house- he actually did, 3 times to be exact (there was a celebration in those times). Anyway not sure what to do either but it helps to know Im not the only one. He didnt even make an effort to see me or plan anything the week before he went out of town. sometimes i question if he even has time for me at all. Hello everyone, Ive been with my boyfriend for two years, hes a good man, kind and gentle and always takes care of me. But its weird because he texts me good morning every day, asks how my day is throughout the day, sends me updates on everything he is doing, etc. Coz I know he loves me but I dont know what gets over him all of a sudden. He studies in a university and was about to graduate when the lockdown began. Day after, he went for work in other city and stayed there for 3months. , hopefully each day, I will start to become stronger, and maybe me and him could continue with our friendship as time passes. I dont know what to do. Theres no dignity or respect in how youre being treated. He would always build my hopes up before we call and end up forgetting or when he calls, hes either that hes going to bed or do so while playing his games throughout the call and not pay attention even when i have something to share which hurt my feelings. He is not often visit to me. Thats it. And he knows that Im on the edge of being homeless and I know theres not much he can do. But have to understand yourself mentality first because if not you will lose yourself in the process. I just now accidentally found this article and my rather lengthy comment. Hi girl, Im in the same situation right now. On the other hand, maybe your boyfriends lack of effort means that he only calls you once a month or texts you once every two months. Putting yourself out there to even carry on with friends will feel more exhausting each time till you get to the point where you just want anyone in your life at all. Which I loved! He is a freeloader. However, how do we Know that the ll will Change? When you let go, you find peace and freedom. I keep trying to tell myself this is just a bad patch until I finish school and get a full-time job again- now that hes finally got a new job and should be happy. Been with my a few years. I trust him and I wanna keep trusting him. However, somewhere after the 4-5 month mark, he got another job and started working two jobs. Ive had absolutely enough. Three weeks in he moved in with me and then the coronavirus pandemic hit and our romance took a nosedive. Girl, you need to ditch him. He avoided conversations about his feelings, and we struggled to communicate & resolve issues. As of now, we have been back together in a relationship for about a year and a half. It can certainly take a negative toll on your relationship (and your self-esteem) if you constantly have to repeat yourself, you cant help but feel your S.O. Which actually does NOT suck because I was married for 24 years and I dont miss having to make sure someone eats supper, has clean clothes, etc. I try to do something positive and you piss on it. Since a month or so these fights are causing me to have panic attacks and he doesnt care when tell him how much it affects me. Im sorry. This is where my first question comes in: how well do you know your boyfriend? I met my boyfriend this summer (July) through my bestfriend and I met him through snap (he was 18 and he doesnt go to school and I am a junior in highschool. But I am tired of not having a life together anymore. Just know youre not the only one feelings this Im not sure what is going on because I confront him about it and he says he just hasnt been on his phone. If you always cook dinner, take a night off. He sent a text yesterday telling me,he is still with me and will always be with me,he loves me and needs me,but he is still a bit distant! and drags me with this idea too. Letting Go of Someone You Loveisnt about getting over it. Letting go doesnt mean forgetting, pretending you didnt lose an important relationship, or guarding your heart so you dont get hurt again. Hes sees things in one paranoid way only, that Im selfish and dont really love him and just like the things he can give me. I bought so much things to do for his birthday . Always cussed them out and called them names, and he works a whole day.. we are now behind on bills , our electric is over 300$ , our wifi is 170+$, we have another wifi bill from another company thats 200+$, and hes had multiple concussions and a broken hip from hockey a long time ago.. Hes become so inward that I have to question him daily and it hurts.. I read this article today because today he laughed at me when I put on a dress that wasnt low cut or revels my chest. Go back to doing the things I use to do before I met him. We fight a lot almost every week because my needs are not met. ?pretty much hurts and also my first. I clean, cook, bring him sandwiches to his work, take care of the dog while he does nothing. It doesnt matter what words youre saying, the message is clear: I will tolerate this, as long as you let me explain repeatedly why I dont agree with it. The most important lesson Ive learned from my love life is this: My role is to set boundaries. How can he be so sure of that and not even care to nurture our relationship? Ive been with him since july 2020 and its been rocky but its resolved and yeah there is zero effort to hang out and i have to initiate everything. He will never be that boyfriend ever again. I really need an outlet! When he is sad I quit everything to cheer him up. I assumed he was dozing off cause he usually do. Let YOU be your super woman! You Are Very Possessive & Insecure about Him. But he tells me that he wants to get married even im being a total b*tch. I dont get it. As well BALANCE is a VERY hard thing for men I have learned. He is the type of person who has to be in control of everything, and I feel like when I suggest things for us to do together he shuts me down, but if any of his friends suggest the same thing he is game. When you're unpredictable, he'll get more excited when you reach out. And then he apologize to me and said he just feel pitty of me. Same thing happened another day and another. Because he needs time for himself and his past time projects, which is understandable as he is more introverted. He got a divorce just over two years ago and lately he has been having some family issues. And what does he say when I say that, he says what plan? Because you are a happy individual yourself, he would feel lucky to share his life with you. We need to be very careful with whom we share our hearts with. In fact, he rejects them flat out. That gives a clear instruction on how they can help meet your needs. I signed up for therapy and told him that if my behavior was hurting him, that I was willing to change. So, whether you've only just noticed your partner giving you the proverbial cold shoulder or have undergone the iciness for weeks/months/years, now is the time to take a closer look at your relationship to establish the reason for the discontent and determine if the partnership is worth mending. We dont even have a date on when we decided to be together. I started skate boarding and going to the skate park. I asked him again he did not reply back.. now the whole time we have been dating I have been the one to travel back and forth with my son to see him. Unlike me, hes understanding and loyal (my family loves him) but his situation is really difficult but im getting tired of being the only one that tries to make this work by always initiating stuff. A little reminder that you're an equal part of the relationship and have needs, too, could help redirect their focus. We have been talking for almost a month. I decided to pull back and just sit and watch. We just dont talk the same way that we used to. I recently just been promoted to a great job.. He needs a chill pill and a real wake up call and renewed investment in life vs his career. LOL. But I just dont have enough energy to even cry sometimes. Ive talked to him about it twice to no avail. That night at 1 am I snuck out and had his sis pick me up. My BF is of course devastated and angry. Hes a good guy but I dont know why he stopped trying. I suppose its not at all about him but when I have time to think, my mind goes to him. You deserve to be told that you are beautiful, you deserve to be shown concern, you deserve respect. (he was asked from her what are u doing, when she replied studying, he texted shall i come to study with u, and she replied there are my friends at my room, and he replied its k.no matter i ll come) But anyway after i saw it i lost my trust on him. When ALL grocery stores near us are closed saying I dont feel like cooking tonight, we dont have all the ingredients so I say ok why is it that you didnt notice this when you got home from work when stores were open? I have no idea what this is all about, but the roller coaster needs to stop, its too hard for me to deal with. But i couldnt regain my trust for him again. I tried to tell him how rude that was and he didnt understand where I was coming from and proceeded to tell me I was making a big deal about it. Then you explain and get everything fyn between you then after like two weeks he will he will give attitude again from no where five minutes he texts with love the other minutes he will text as if he doesnt care . he nvr plan for any dates, nvr rlly want to try anything new w me. The problem is, everyone around me has boyfriends that are going the extra mile to make sure their girlfriends feel loved at this time. He doesnt do laundry, dishes, cook or clean. Ill leave him alone. It sounds that you need to work on yourself first. I dont understand the change in behavior, at all. Its also heartbreaking, especially when you want to be with him. You can change how you respond to your boyfriend and everything else in your life. My bestfriend just wanted to get me with someone so she picked her friend and I told her that I needed to get to know him first and not rush into a relationship so me and this guy stayed up for 24 hours on ft and we kinda just clicked he told me he liked me and I sort of liked him but I told him I still wanted to just keep talking so we did and he was so impatient he just wanted to ask me out so a week later I was like sure and we started dating. He would change his mind a lot from going to his home state to staying and ever since hes been on and off in our relationship and very careless he doesnt put effort into it after everything I HAVE DONE FOR HIM. Maybes its best we leave it and not have to try so hard with the next person. He dosnt wnt to sex i know that well. When your partner no longer cares about what you say, doesn't value your presence, and doesn't seem to be invested in whats going on in your life, its can feel as though they're taking steps toward living a life without you. Im in college and so is he. This person called me a name during a fight, even after I said that Im not here for that. We have a beautiful home and are dog and cat owners. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 years. We are doing thanksgiving together. I bought him a beautiful set of cufflinks from his university for Christmas. Even when I would ask him in advance if he would like to make plans this weekend, he would say something like, Probably or I have a lot to do but we will probably figure something out. And then it would be the last minute, Hey you want to come over? So I was already starting to get the clue that I am a last priority option. Im sorry, and I know it can be a really hard thing to do, but you need to leave. For example, his car broke down in a town more then an hour away. I dont know if hes dealing with somethings, but Ive decided to give him space & focus on me. He barely showers and Im afraid he barely feeds my son when Im away at work. He gets angry and its caused a lot of fights lately. But hes continued to ignore my texts/ doesnt make effort to see me. 2 years ago, something was off in our relationship and he wasnt making effort with me, almost at all. He is mechanical and can fix many things. Its like you are not even there. No dates, no presents, no initiating anything or trying to make me feel special. I miss him and who he use to be,at the same time am preparing myself for the worst! yes, I did reply. Covid has not helped at all. I then left home and came back a later day. But he say he is not in happy After this all, at some point he started to chnge himself. Sounds exactly like me and my ex. You wouldnt be HERE if you thought your gut was wrong. The lady was there, I was so angry, I wanted to punch her for lying tto me, but my guy was protecting her, he was even telling me to live his house, he humiliated me in front of her, he came last week to my place and tried explaining things, he even spent the night at my house, I feel so stupid, because he is not putting any effort to fix things between us, I feel so stupid for letting him spent the night in my house, why do I still love him even after he has clearly heart broken me, will I ever move from this nightmare? Whereas if I was in his situation I would just leave (not during the lockdown). I saw him once more and he taught me my first trick. That should be enough. Mildly work related topics but no reason for the call other than chat and vent. Dont let your wishes control your thoughts and feelings. I feel like he is not making me a priority in his life. I asked him where he skated since his bio mentioned he skated and then he said he knew me!! We do not even live together and he puts no effort, and I think throughout the years it would get worse if we get married, or live together. So I honestly dont understand. He says he doesnt want to text and show love and tells me to be patient. Weve been together for 2 years or so. We both have good jobs and have a beautiful life together. When You Wish You Were Married: Comfort and Joy on Lonely Days. from there we started to be friend. But do you guys think its worth it? I knew something was wrong. ? line and starts listing all the nice things he did recently. Its sad when other give you the compliments that you are looking from in one person. We were together for three years. My boyfriend and I both 21 have been dating for almost 3 years and for almost 2 years he has been serving the military back home with only weekends to spare and while I am in Canada studying for almost a year. I just want the real him back! I decided to swipe right to see who he was. its just do not putting attention at all. Both Christmases weve been together hes given me money with the excuse that he doesnt have time to shop. time and time again i have told him why i was upset, what he could do to make the situation better and everything in between, yet he still does nothing. The middle of this relationship scale is a 5: youve been dating for a year or more, and you know each other fairly well. He dismisses your emotions. due to time zones, im three hours ahead of him. Ugh. Antidepressents can be a good way to start on the road back to normal just to give you some emotional stability. So, I hate to call him my boyfriend because he is late 50s and I am 47. They say age shouldnt matter, but it does play a part. Does your boyfriend still care? Every time I have to make the first move conversation and ask what to do, He has no idea. Im confused by this guy I had been seeing before coronavirus lockdown. .he is older than me 5 years older and I started dating him because I thought he was mature but every time we fought he puts me down telling me Im fat, Im disgusting, no one will ever want meabout a year ago I went through something where I needed all the support I could get and he left me and didnt have my back..10 years later we have no sex and its always in excuse as to why we are not having ithe continues to call me names and everytime I tell him my true feelings it seems like he dosent care, Ive asked him if he would like to try and start all over because I would still wanna be with him and he agrees and says yes and once again we keep going like through this cycle that never ends..I just wanna be happy at this point I dont know why he dosent try a little harder but Im tired. I stayed in that relationship. Im in the same exact boat. I have asked him on several occasions to make more of an effort but it ends up in an argument. Hi Jessica, Sweetie this man is never going to love you the way you want him too.He may love you the only way he knows how and its not a healthy kind of love by your comments. he briefly mentioned his bad experience with exes, he had two years marriage and he said he felt it was too long. Help. I dont have any family where I live to help out. NO AFFECTION. It was about the same time he stopped replying. and even whn im thr at his place, he would play his game until its time to sleep and then repeat the same thing everyday. Then we were living in different countries. Its okay to build from scratch instead of being in an emotionally abusive relationship and constantly being destroyed in to nothing. Even when I have my moments he still comes back around. Ive had a talk with him a few times that I feel like his mom, Im always cleaning and cooking and have to tell him what needs to be done. His attitude stinks toohe laughs in my face when I get upset by this. I even asked around to see if anyone knew what happened and no one did. I dont think Ill ever want to be in another relationship again. Anything and Everything in hopes he would think maybe he should do the same. Carve out time for conversation, get in tune with their needs, stop avoiding difficult chats, empathize with what they say, and listen to how they say it. Personally, I feel rejected when he doesnt make an effort.. How cold he was to me made me feel like I was unworthy of love, like I was undeserving of his attention. I am this woman. I stayed because I felt that I deserved to hear those things, I was being enlightened about what others saw in me but were just too polite to say to me. Help me please I have no idea what to do. Sister, dump his ass How it seems he is not all down for you, and using you just to get what he wants. Hi, I really need help/advice Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9months and we really do love each other but a couple weeks ago we just didnt talk as much or communicate in person & I asked him if he wants this relationship and he said hes lost feelings for me (but he doesnt know and his heads abit lost) and it doesnt feel like were together anymore because the conversation is dead. He stays at my house an wont clean a dish or pick up his trash off my floor. I feel you. The life situations just put our relationship to the side. I used to think eventually wed work through the kinks and finally stop arguing. This yr even I got nothing from his side. The day before yesterday he texted me saying hes been feeling unwell and didnt get much sleep. Yet he continues to text me daily, send me daily updates on everything he is doing, etc. We have had sex, one time. Around this same time, I decided to download the dating app bumble to see where it would take me. I love him very much, he often talks about our future, kids and stuff but he isnt willing to do any sacrifices for the relationship. He knows im going to have sex with him if he initiates it because im 36 years old and NEVER EVER EVER have sex. I guess subconsciously I acted that way because hes quite lazy and I didnt want to cut him any slack in fear that he would put in less effort to maintain the long distance. I dont always have it my way though because hes dealing with personal problems that have stretched for months. Dont EXPECT him to show up for it, but try to share it with him a little bit. but thats what made me fall in love with him and now that i feel like the efforts arent made or not even made but not wanted, not driven, not desired as he felt before. I would have send him through money to pay for the tea, its annoying tho that I know he went out that night and bought all his workmates drinks. I have been with my boyfriend for one and a half years. should i stay or let go? Hello everyone, i have a story to share! Should I just leave and find someone that can give me those things? So guess what? So i get back from fall break and i zoom him.hes acting different and grumpy and meanhe told me he was moving back to his home state and never coming backI started balling my eyes out I was so confused. It is almost like I was forcing him to show that he cared. I mentallyI dont understand the action itself . Trust me, because I have gone through absolute bad times and still risen like a phoenix. All relationships are unique. He used o do his laundry, make his bed, clean the kitchen, cook himself and I dinner when I was at HIS place a lot or even when i moved in with him! If youre not happy then leave him, its that simple. Its been almost two years and weve been inseparable ever since but lately it seems like something has changed. He is so passive. This quarantine also suddenly ruined my relationship. I was in a similar situation when I was in college. When were on nights out and theres drink involved, he has a habit of literally disappearing for the whole day (with other people he knows that arent in my circle) and he doesnt contact me, when I try to contact him he usually does answer but after talking to him I never see any sign of him. Anniversaries, birthdays etc. he likes to live in the moment as he says. You deserve so much more. Or stay here and break up. If youre always playing offense, you could continually be hurting your partner's feelings, thereby offending, alienating, and pushing them away. Its going to make me fall out of love as he is so defensive and cannot solve the issue. Maybe you feel grateful when your boyfriend finally decides to stop by at 10 pm, without calling first. Then we signed our new real lease together and I dont know how we got where we got but he started getting lazy. Communication is not good. And thats is the absolute best you can do. Here are just some of the effects if one partner will fail to pay full time & attention not just with their partner but with the relationship itself. I may be overreacting sometimes, but I believe my feelings are valid. I am retired. Dont ever think you are alone btw! Especially for someone like me who is lonely all the time. Well today came and guess who backed out of the park?? We do get a long very well and we are highly mature people. 2 years ago I started dating this guy and I knew then with him about a year and a 1/2 ago he made it clear that he still loves his ex wife but due to my health circumstances I had no choice but to move in I had nowhere else to go for me and my kids. And think about the other person not just about yourself. I talk about this with him. You should definitely read the book why men love b*tches this really goes into depth on why men do that. You cant let him be the center of your life! Even though hes not there, I definitely dont sit home pining away for him. For the first time in my life,i met someone who truly loves me,he gives me everything i want,he goes out of his way to do anything for me,but because i have being in so many bad relationships,i find it hard to trust him,lately we were having so many issues,cos i couldnt trust him and thought he was cheating! He calls me stupid n crazy. He is failing to realize that I am being affected too. Like, if they arent happy anymore, why not tell us so we can move on? My bday in Jan and our 5 year anniversary/V-tines Day was a sh*t show. Find a low-key, nonthreatening way to approach him. Romantic. I love everything you said and its so true. Thats why I feel like I need to leave. At first, he was working, seeing his daughter, making me coffee in the morning, starting my car for me, doing dishes, and laundry and now ten months in, he lost his job, and I have no idea if hes looking for a job. My boyfriend was CEO of the company when I know him, we both were very attracted to each other, but some how we missed the chance. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs & was confused and often questioned his love for me & his commitment to me. Sadly, he doesnt ask questions about me, my life before. If anything is like now hes got this new job hes checked out and wants a new life. You figure youll be happier not wanting anything from anyone. Sometimes I dont talk to see if hell bring anything up, and the silence is too awkward and long that I give in and say something else. I start to think that maybe he is cheap and he doesnt want to spend money having a meal in a nice restaurant because we didnt go out for a proper dinning experience. And when I would send him flirty or intimate texts in the beginning of this whole thing, he would either not respond at all or sound uncomfortable in his response. I still have ticket stubs from all the movies we saw and how much trouble weve gotten into together. but is a single text or a goodmorning too much to ask? Im certain when he got up in the middle of the night drunk and angry because I was trying to cuddle and woke him up (he got dressed and turned all the lights on to start manically cleaning the house) that he probably threw them in the garbage. I feel like my heart is breaking already, just waiting for the dreaded phone call to say he cant give me what I want when Ive said all I want is some time together an hour here or there, some texts to show he cares I dont feel its much but if its too much for him then I guess I need to accept things. After he left me, my life became miserable.. I recently said I needed a romantic date, and other things kept coming up. First off I pulled back without warning. I know love makes me blind, could anyone tell me what I have been missing in this relationship please? 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